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Steps To A Meaningful Service
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When someone you love has died, not only is there much to cope with emotionally, but there are also several logistical concerns which can weigh you down. What kind of service should there be? What options do we have? Our firm understands that these issues can be especially hard to handle in a time of mourning, so that is why we are here to help. Below are a few helpful steps that may assist you during the difficult time following a loved one’ death.

First Step — Call Your Funeral Director and Clergy
First and foremost, when someone you love has died, you and your family need comforting attention. You need time to mourn and grieve, so set aside and protect that time. During this time, you may want to call your Rabbi or Minister, who can help in your healing process. It is important that you consult not only with your clergy but your funeral director as well before setting a date and time of services.

When a person dies away from home F. S. Mclean will advise on the best approach to take in having your loved one returned to the local area in the most suitable manner.

Second Step — Notify Family, Friends, and Associates
After contacting your clergy and funeral director, you will want to let others know of your loved one's death. This can be a healthy part of the grieving process.

Third Step — Consult With Your Funeral Director
Next, you should have a consultation with the funeral director. In this meeting, you will give personal information to fill out the necessary documentsand prepare the obituary. Some of these facts may be difficult to obtain, so you may want to locate the necessary information before the consultation. The information usually needed includes: name of deceased, date and place of birth, date and place of death, age, martial status, contact details for name of next of kin, Parish of residence and religious affiliation, place of burial or cremation, and preferred date of burial or cremation.

Fourth Step — Fixing the Time, Place, and Type of Funeral Service
During the consultation with the funeral director, the time, place, and type of service will be discussed. Once confirmation is received from Minister/Priest and necessary arrangements are made with cemetary/crematorium the details will be finalised. Many times funeral services are held at the chapels of rest, while other times they are held at the local Church or Crematorium. We can help you to prepare any number of service styles. If you desire to have non-religious service we can also suggest content that maintains the positive values and dignity of the funeral for the family.

Fifth Step — Choose the Appropriate Coffin or Casket
In consulation with the funeral director, you will next select the products you desire. F. S. Mclean has a wide variety of styles and features aiming to make it easier for families to choose the coffin whicht is most appropriate. In the case of cremation you will probably require a Casket. Again we will advise you. The Funeral Director will advise on all likely costs. Please don't feel embarresed to ask for clarification on any matter.

Sixth Step — Details of the Service
Together, the clergy, funeral director and family work out the details of the funeral or memorial service. Music, scripture, poetry readings, eulogies and other pieces come together for a meaningful experience. Pallbearers may be chosen if desired. Once selected, these individuals should then be contacted by a member of the family. The Funeral Director will generally arrange for hymn sheets to be printed if required

Final Step — Tend to your own needs
Losing someone you love is one of life's biggest challenges. Prior to, during, and after the days a death and funeral have taken place are often overlooked when it comes to taking care of ourselves. The days ahead will take both a physical and emotional toll on you. It is important to stop and remember that you need food and rest. It is okay to reach out to others for help, you will find that the help of others tends to be a great source of comfort.